Accountable

So now that school is starting its 7th week I have found myself getting in some bad habits which of course have brought stress and frustration into my mornings. Our kids are up early, so we are not "rushed" in the mornings, but I found myself carrying most of the work load AND being the nagging reminder about simple tasks like getting dressed, teeth brushed, shoes on, etc. I had myself a little mini break down last Thurs, overwhelmed with everything that needs to get done on a daily basis let alone just in the mornings before school. My hubby of course is my barometer and he jumped in to bring me down. We talked to each other, I talked to my mom and other friends and realized that I was causing some of the unnecessary stress thinking it was just easier to "do it myself". So I would di it myself, and then when I would ask the kids to help all I got was whining...not a great thing to add to a busy morning. After much reflection over the weekend I came up with a morning check list. I explained my expectation and that I would not be reminding them to do anything. They have all morning before we leave to complete these tasks and if they are unable then a privilege would be lost in the afternoon. In addition, I am starting their chores chart back up today that worked so well last year and some how we got away from doing it. So, I enjoyed a much less stress morning, things got done, and now I can focus on the things I need to do. Here is to a fresh start...